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I run a very underfunded all volunteer petfood foodbank project- and we have been hammered big time this year.
a lady called me from a na addy- she was softly crying, asking for food for her two large dogs. she told me, "when they came for the car i told the neighbors it was being taken to be detailed" "when they came for some furniture, i told the neighbors it was being redone" and she continued-- i asked if she had a wagon for her kids, and she said yes- so, she rolled it over to my driveway and picked up several cases of canned food, which was all i had- no dry, we were out- she thanked me and i suggested a pawn shop that is good for tools, and a store that buys jewelry for decent prices- she gave me a big hug and thanked me again for understanding.
Yes folks, it is that ugly right now for some people. I get the calls. Have gotten them for decades. But, when they come from this part of town, you know it has hit home. if you have a neighbor who is out of a job, assume they are low on supplies. Do Not invite them to expensive movies or dinners. Suggest a family movie night, rent a movie and get together with popcorn. Some people have no coping skills, have never lived without and don't have a clue. They are as sad as the people who have always lived without and know which foodpantries have the "good stuff". Practice kindness- it matters, one person and one animal at a time. Maybe you bought some food your dog doesn't like, and maybe you dog likes it but you didn't even try and maybe you can just gift it to a neighbor as something their dog might eat. Just maybe, with tact, you can help without the obvious charity stigma. At this juncture, drop a bag of groceries on their doorstep, ring the bell, and run~ i dunno, people hesitate to ask for help till it is too late, but there are dogs fed today because a lady brought over a child's wagon and fiiled it. That is a start.
gail- i got a call yesterday- the family had downsized last year from a nice condo to a southside rental- still, it became too expensive. they pawned their second car. hello- did anyone react the way i did? they didn't sell it for more money, but pawned it , hoping to be able to retrieve the car. They are unable to face the reality that their children won't get to go to columbus schools, but must relocate outside of the city to a consolidated district with a very long busride for the kids, and a longer commute for the one working parent. I provided some dog food, and i also gave them our emergency bag of rice and beans and peanut butter, etc. They make too much for any programs. But, foreclosure, then rent for a three bedroom home, then car repairs, then health issues, then then then- they took their second car to a pawn shop. These folks used to volunteer with us, and her kids loved the na schools. Remember, the downgrade impacts the kids, too- So, teach your children to make do with less. Even if you have more. Why? because someday they may need to know how to survive a recession. And for lots of kids and their families, that someday is today.
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